Likewise, if the guys you meet don’t seem to want to know you after sex, it may be that they are simply being realistic about the difficulties in pursuing a relationship with someone who lives far away. It’s not necessarily personal. And if you meet them at a sex venue or a beat, etc. then it may not be realistic to expect much either. Most guys go to places like that because they want to get off, they are not necessarily there looking for a relationship.
Most of the time that’s all that people want, they don’t want to know about lunch the next day, they don’t want to get to know you. — ALESSIO
You try and meet someone meaningful if you can, but otherwise it’s you know, just quick fun. — PETER
I had a lot of casual sex. Although I did meet somebody and we did have a great time together and it got too deep, too fast. Spun him out, spun me out. I wasn’t expecting that. But it would have been nice to pursue that. — HAROLD